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The Social Aspect of Islam
Rights, duties and sacred bonds that build a righteous and stable society
"The believers in their love, mercy and their feeling for each other are like one body: if one part feels pains, all the other parts feel pain by fever and sleeplessness." โ Prophet Muhammad ๏ทบ [Muslim]
Introduction
Islam has introduced social laws which set the rights and duties of every individual to ensure stability in society. These rights are not mere recommendations โ they are divine obligations that protect the honor, wealth, and well-being of every member of the community. Some of these rights are specific to particular relationships, while others are general and encompass all of humanity.
From the ruler to the ruled, from husband to wife, from parent to child, and from neighbor to guest โ Islam assigns each party their due rights. When these rights are fulfilled, society becomes a network of mercy, justice, and mutual support.
๐ The Social Foundation
- Justice: Every individual receives their due right without favoritism.
- Mercy: Relationships are built upon compassion, not merely obligation.
- Reciprocity: Each right carries a corresponding duty.
- Divine Source: All social legislation originates from Allah, not human whim.
Rights Owed to the Ruler
The relationship between the ruler and the ruled in Islam is built upon obedience, sincerity, and mutual support. Allah says: "O you who believe! Obey Allah and obey the Messenger, and those of you who are in authority." [4:59]
Obedience: Muslims must obey the ruler as long as he does not command them to do something forbidden in Islam. This obedience maintains unity and prevents chaos.
Sincere Advice: They must give sincere advice to the ruler in a good and kind manner, guiding him and his people to beneficial things and reminding him of the needs of his subjects. Allah instructed Moses and Aaron: "And speak to him mildly, perhaps he may accept admonition or fear (Allah)." [20:44]
Support in Adversity: Muslims must support the ruler in times of adversity and crises, and not revolt against him or forsake him, even if one belongs to a group that does not pledge allegiance to him. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Whoever comes to you while you are all united under a single leader and wishes to disrupt the unity and solidarity (of the Muslims), kill him." [Muslim]
Rights Owed to the Ruled
The ruler carries a heavy trust before Allah. These rights fall under five general fundamentals:
1. Justice: A ruler is required to be just, protecting others' rights, performing his duties, distributing responsibilities fairly, and implementing the law without favoring any individual or group. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Indeed the most beloved person to Allah and the closest one to be seated to Him on the Day of Requital will be a just ruler." [at-Tirmidhi]
2. Honesty and Trustworthiness: He must not oppress, deceive, or behave treacherously towards the masses. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "No slave is given responsibility over some people and dies in a state in which he is treacherous to them, except that Allah forbids him from Paradise." [Muslim]
3. Mutual Consultation: He must consult the people regarding affairs pertaining to their political, social, and economic interests, and accept their views if they prove to be in the best interest of the public. Allah says: "...and consult them in the affairs." [3:159]
4. Ruling by Islamic Law: His laws and constitution must be in accordance with Islamic Law. There is no room for him to judge according to his whims or desires.
5. Accessibility and Mercy: He should not withdraw himself from the masses, belittle them, or burden them with unbearable tasks. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "O Allah, whoever takes command of something of my nation and makes things hard for them, then make things hard for him, and whoever takes command of something of my Ummah and is gentle with them, then be gentle with him." [Muslim]
๐ฟ The Measure of Leadership
Al-Hasan al-Basri wrote to a leader: "A just ruler is like a kind shepherd who looks for the best pastures for his flock and steers them away from danger... like a caring father who toils for the sake of his children... like an affectionate mother who bears her son with hardship and delivers him with hardship."
Rights Owed to Parents
Islam has accorded parents a status of immense honor. Children must speak to them softly, never utter a word of disrespect, and have patience in serving them. Allah says: "And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honor." [17:23]
Islam has regarded disobedience to parents as one of the greatest sins. The Prophet ๏ทบ was asked about the gravest sins and he replied: "To worship or associate partners with Allah... then disobedience to parents." [al-Bukhari]
The Mother's Special Station: Mothers are given priority over fathers in matters of kind treatment. A man asked the Prophet ๏ทบ who has the most right to good companionship, and he replied: "Your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father, and then those after him." [Muslim] This is because the mother bears hardships that the father cannot โ during pregnancy, childbirth, and nurturing.
These rights remain even if parents are non-Muslims. Asmaa bint Abi Bakr asked the Prophet ๏ทบ whether she should maintain ties with her polytheist mother, and he replied: "Yes, maintain relations with your mother." [al-Bukhari]
Rights Owed to the Husband
Leadership of the Household: The husband has the right to be the leader of the house, implementing what he sees as the best interest for the affairs of the family. Allah says: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means." [4:34] However, he should still consult his wife and accept her views.
Obedience: The wife must obey her husband as long as he does not command her to do something sinful.
Intimacy: The wife must not refuse her husband when he calls her to bed. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will continuously curse her till the morning." [Muslim]
Protection of Honor and Secrets: She should protect his children, honor, and wealth. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "The best of women are those that when you look at her you are pleased, when you order her she obeys, and when you are not present, she keeps your secrets and protects your wealth." [Nasaa'i]
A Husband's Obligations Towards His Wife
1. The Dowry (Mahr): A woman has a right to a dowry stated during the marriage contract. Allah says: "And give to the women (whom you marry) their dowry with a good heart." [4:4]
2. Justice and Equality: If a man has more than one wife, he must treat them fairly regarding food, drink, dress, residence, and time. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "If a man has two wives and favors one of them over the other in fair-treatment, he will come on the Day of Requital with one side tilted." [Abu Dawood]
3. Provision: A husband must provide appropriate residence, food, drink, clothing, and upkeep within his means. Allah says: "Let the rich man spend according to his means, and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allah has given him." [65:7] The Prophet ๏ทบ said that even a morsel of food placed in the wife's mouth is counted as charity.
4. Compassion and Kindness: A wife needs a loving heart and a husband who treats her with kindness. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "The best and most complete believers are the best of them in character and manners, and the best of you are the best of you towards their wives." [at-Tirmidhi]
5. Keeping Her Secrets: He must keep private matters confidential and not expose her shortcomings. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "The worst of people in the sight of Allah, on the Day of Requital, is the man who has relations with his wife and then divulges her secrets." [Muslim]
6. Patience with Her Faults: The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Let not a believing man despise a believing woman. Even if he may hate one aspect, he is pleased with another." [Muslim]
๐ A Mother's Advice
An early Muslim mother advised her daughter on her wedding night: "My daughter, you have parted from your home to a man you do not know. So be his maid and he will be your slave. Observe for him ten qualities: contentment, obedience, taking care of your beauty, taking heed of the time of his sleep and meals, taking care of his money and children, refraining from showing pleasure when he is worried or grief when he is pleased."
The Rights of Relatives
Islam urges Muslims to help and care for their relatives โ financially through charity, and morally through kindness, sympathy, and sharing joys and sorrows. Allah says: "And fear Allah through Whom you demand (your mutual rights), and do not cut the relations of the wombs (kinship)." [4:1]
Remarkably, Islam urges treating close relatives kindly even if they do not reciprocate. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "It is not he who maintains ties with his relatives who does so if they do the same; but rather it is he who maintains ties with them even if they cut relation with him." [al-Bukhari]
Severing ties of kinship is considered one of the greatest sins. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "One who severs ties of kinship will not enter Paradise." [Muslim]
The Rights of Children
Children must be protected, properly raised, and their needs met โ food, drink, dress, and accommodation. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "It is sinful enough for a person to be negligent of his family." [Abu Dawood]
Good Names: Parents should choose appropriate names. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Indeed on the Day of Requital you will be called by your names and your father's names, so keep good names." [Abu Dawood]
Education and Upbringing: Children should be taught good manners โ modesty, respect for elders, truthfulness, and honesty โ and kept away from foul language and evil deeds. They should be introduced to righteous company.
Equal Treatment: Parents must treat children equally in gifts and treatment. Nu'man ibn Basheer narrated that when his father gave him charity but not his siblings, the Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Fear Allah and be just in regards to your children." [Muslim]
The Rights of Neighbors
Islam has enjoined goodness to neighbors in all respects. Allah says: "Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, the poor, the neighbor who is near of kin, the neighbor who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (you meet)..." [4:36]
The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Gabriel continued to command me in regards to neighbors until I thought that he would give them a share of inheritance." [al-Bukhari] He also declared: "By Allah, he does not believe โ he whose neighbor is not safe from his evil." [al-Bukhari]
There are three types of neighbors:
- A Muslim relative: Has three rights โ relative, neighbor, and Muslim.
- A Muslim neighbor: Has two rights โ neighbor and Muslim.
- A non-Muslim neighbor: Has one right โ the right of a neighbor.
The family of Abdullah ibn Amr would cook a sheep and ask: "Did you give some to our Jewish neighbor?" [at-Tirmidhi]
The Rights of Friends, Companions & Guests
Friends: Islam encourages considering the needs of friends and giving them sincere advice. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "The best of companions in the Sight of Allah is the best of them towards his companion." [at-Tirmidhi] These rights continue even after death โ honoring their parents and maintaining their friendships.
Guests: Guests have the right to be shown generosity. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him be generous to his guest... A day and a night, and one must honor his guest for three days. Whoever does more, then it is a charity for him." [al-Bukhari]
However, a guest should not burden his host. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "It is unlawful for a Muslim to stay with his brother until he makes him fall into sin... That he stays with him while he does not have enough money to serve him food." [Muslim]
Rights Related to Employment
The relationship between employer and employee should be based upon brotherhood, equality, and dignity. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Your servants are your brothers whom Allah has placed under your authority. Whoever has his brother under his authority, let him feed him from what he eats and clothe him with what he wears." [al-Bukhari]
Rights of the Employed
Islam guarantees the right to receive wages. The Prophet ๏ทบ narrated from Allah that He said: "I will stand against three types of people on the Day of Requital... a person who hired a workman, takes his full due of work from him but does not give him his right (his wages)." [al-Bukhari]
Wages must be negotiated before work begins and paid immediately after the task is completed. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Pay the workman his wages before his sweat dries." [Ibn Maajah] Labor is dignified โ the Prophet ๏ทบ said that David (peace be upon him) ate from what his own hands earned.
Rights of the Employer
Employees must perform their work sincerely, properly, and without delay. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "Indeed Allah likes that if one of you performs some work, that he does it perfectly." [Abu Ya'laa] The best earnings are those earned by working sincerely and properly.
General Rights and Obligations
Islam obligates upon Muslims to regard the conditions of their Muslim brothers wherever they may be. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "None of you believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself." [al-Bukhari]
Muslims must stand by their brothers in crises, aid them in times of war, and never forsake them. The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "No person forsakes defending his Muslim brother when his honor is being attacked, except that Allah will forsake him at a time when he needs it most." [Ahmad & Abu Dawood]
๐ฟ Lessons We Learn
- Every relationship in Islam carries both rights and responsibilities.
- Justice and mercy are the twin pillars of all social interaction.
- The strongest society is one where the strong protect the weak.
- Kindness to neighbors and guests extends even to non-Muslims.
- Family ties must be maintained, even when relatives are unkind.
- Work and labor are dignified when conducted with sincerity.
Conclusion
The social aspect of Islam is not a collection of vague ideals โ it is a comprehensive, practical system that governs every human relationship with justice, mercy, and divine wisdom. From the highest ruler to the youngest child, from the closest relative to the stranger next door, every individual has rights that are protected by the Shari'ah.
When Muslims fulfill these rights โ obeying rulers in goodness, honoring parents, showing kindness to spouses, raising children with care, maintaining family ties, being good to neighbors, dealing honestly in employment, and supporting one another in hardship โ they build a society that is stable, compassionate, and pleasing to Allah.
These teachings are as relevant today as they were when first revealed. In a world fractured by individualism, materialism, and broken relationships, the social system of Islam offers the remedy: a return to divine guidance in how we treat one another.