وَيُؤْثِرُونَ عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ وَلَوْ كَانَ بِهِمْ خَصَاصَةٌ
Sharing with Others
Lesson 2—"They give preference to others over themselves, even when they are in need."
The Ansar's Beautiful Hearts
When the Prophet ﷺ and the Muhajirun arrived in Madinah, they had left everything behind in Makkah. They had no homes, no farms, and very little food. The people of Madinah — the Ansar — welcomed them with open arms.
One Ansari man went to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, I have two date palm orchards. Please take one for the Muhajirun." Another brought his best sheep and said, "This is for our brothers."
Allah described them in the Qur'an: "They give them preference over themselves, even though they are in poverty. And whoever is protected from the stinginess of his soul — it is those who will be the successful." (Surah Al-Hashr, 59:9)
A young girl once asked her mother, "But Mama, what if I only have one sweet?" Her mother smiled and replied, "Then break it in half, my love. Because when you share with Allah's pleasure in your heart, He fills what remains with more barakah than the whole sweet ever had."
Why Sharing Matters
- It cures stinginess. The Prophet ﷺ warned against the disease of greed. Sharing trains the heart to love giving more than keeping.
- It builds brotherhood. When children share, they learn that happiness grows when it is divided.
- It brings barakah. The Prophet ﷺ said: "Charity does not decrease wealth."
- It pleases Allah. Every time a child gives with a sincere heart, Allah records it as an act of worship.
Try This at Home
This week's family challenge: Create a "Sharing Box." Each family member places one item they love into the box — a toy, a book, a snack. At the end of the week, gather together and each person chooses something from the box that belongs to someone else. Talk about how it felt to give and to receive.
Tip for parents: Never force sharing. Instead, model it. When you share your food, your time, or your attention, your child absorbs the lesson naturally. Say aloud: "I'm sharing my dates with Baba because Allah loves those who give."
🖨️ Free Printable Poster
Print this poster and place it in your child's play area or bedroom. Right-click and "Save image" — or screenshot the poster below.
Share your food
Share your smile
Allah loves those who give
— Prophet Muhammad ﷺ